As I was heading over to Food Basics to buy some Harvest Crunch (on sale at 2 boxes for $5 this week) I was halted for a few minutes by the Pride parade heading up Brock Street past the market.

This photo of a same-sex kiss on the front page of the Kingston Whig Standard in August 1969 provoked outrage. Times have changed for the better in K-town.
I had a flashback to 1985, the first year I moved to Kingston, and the uproar that happened when two young men staged a “kiss-in” on the steps of City Hall on August 8.
I understand that the LGBT community had been appealing to the Kingston City Council to be able to hold pride celebrations of some sort for a couple of years and were being rebuked. In order to draw some attention, this kiss-in, in a kind of make-love-not-war theme, was organized on the anniversary of the bombing of Hiroshima in a kind of combination effort to promote some tolerance of sexual diversity and remind people that love is better than war.

Enlarge this photo to see some of the letters to the Whig decrying the obscenity of “the kiss”.
The “ceremony” drew about 400 onlookers and the next day there was a photo on the front page of the Whig Standard. What followed was outrage. People threatened to cancel their paper for showing this “excessive and offensive” behaviour. “ It just made me feel like throwing up.” said one. “We were disgusted to see those two homosexuals in a loving embrace.” wrote another.
It took several years of requesting but finally in 1992, Mayor Helen Cooper proclaimed a Pride Day in Kingston.
This year, the walkway in front of City Hall has been painted in rainbow colours and the parade had hundreds of folks who believe that there is strength in diversity walking together through the streets – Businesses, Church groups, Military, police, friends and even our federal Member of Parliament (who happens to be the son of the mayor of the city in 1985).
Watching the cheerful and colourful parade pass by, it made me happy to know that our society has grown much more tolerant and accepting of diversity. I was also delighted last week to see this sign on a few lawns in Kingston and around the university. I am glad that my grandchildren will grow up in a society that acknowledges diversity as a strength, not a threat.
One would hope that we can continue to celebrate our differences – religious, sexual orientation, political, cultural, – rather than see them as divisive. Who knows, eventually, I may even become accepting of Toronto Maple Leafs fans.

Just part of the Kingston Pride parade celebration in 2018.
Last night I went to see Rhinoceros at the Bader Centre for the Arts. I knew several friends who were in it but had no idea what it was about. I was a bit disoriented at first, not sure where it all was heading or why. Tied together by the notion that there were a few rhinoceroses seen about town and they presented both curiosity and perhaps even threat, the rest of the night was a series of vignettes – monologues and poems and dance and music – that were largely written and performed by local people.
As the actors called out that they had spotted a rhinoceros on the street, I was reminded of a trip to Uganda in 2013 with my friend, Dave Kay. We went to a rhino sanctuary where we were out with a guide looking for a few of the (huge) rhinos that lived in the forest there. We came across a few. Dave was more brave than I was to get a look at them. I hung back with my camera – if the rhino charged it would get Dave first. And our instructions were, if the animal charged to climb a tree. Can you imagine me scrambling up an acacia with a rhino snorting down on me? The guide said that when they charged it was usually a false charge and they would stop short. Usually was the operative word in that sentence for me. We survived.
And to fit the diversity theme, this happens to be Pride weekend in Kingston. Today there was a parade down Princess Street with lots of colour and gaiety in the old sense of the word.




